If you share your life with a Cavapoo, chances are you’ve noticed a little furry shadow trailing behind you everywhere you go. Whether you’re walking to the kitchen, heading upstairs, or even sneaking off to the bathroom, your Cavapoo is right there, looking at you like, “Hey, where are we off to now?”

It might feel a little funny (and occasionally inconvenient), but this Velcro-like behavior is totally normal. Let’s dive into why Cavapoos are so clingy, the science behind it, and how you can strike the right balance between closeness and independence.

Cavapoos Are Born Companions

Cavapoos are a mix of the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel and the Poodle. Both breeds were developed to be close to humans: Cavaliers as lap dogs for royalty and Poodles as clever companions and retrievers. Put those genetics together, and you get a dog that is practically hardwired to stick to your side.

According to the American Kennel Club (AKC), Cavalier King Charles Spaniels are known for being “affectionate and eager to please.” Poodles, meanwhile, rank among the top three most intelligent dog breeds, making them intuitive and quick to adapt to human routines. Your Cavapoo’s tendency to follow you around is a blend of loyalty, love, and brains.

The Science of “Shadow Dogs”

Studies on canine behavior reveal that dogs form strong bonds with their owners through a phenomenon known as attachment behavior. Multiple research studies have found that dogs exhibit secure base effects, similar to children with their parents, indicating they perceive us as a safe haven.

So, when your Cavapoo trots after you to the bathroom, it’s not just being nosy. To your pup, you’re the center of their world, the one who provides food, comfort, and security. Naturally, they want to keep tabs on you.

Separation Anxiety vs. Normal Clinginess

Of course, there’s a difference between the typical “I love you so much I can’t let you out of my sight” behavior and true separation anxiety.

Normal clinginess looks like:

• Following you around the house
• Sitting near you when you settle down
• Checking in often with eye contact or cuddles

Separation anxiety might include:

• Barking, whining, or howling when you leave
• Destructive chewing or scratching at doors
• Accidents in the house when left alone

If you notice these signs, your Cavapoo may require additional training or professional guidance to help them feel secure when you’re away.

Why the Bathroom Specifically?

Let’s be honest, dogs don’t understand the concept of “personal space” the way humans do. Bathrooms, with their closed doors and funny smells, are mysterious places to your Cavapoo. Following you in there is just their way of saying, “I don’t want to miss out on anything… even this!”

Some behaviorists also suggest that dogs follow us to small, confined spaces because it reminds them of the den-like closeness their ancestors shared. To them, the bathroom is just another place to bond.

How to Encourage Independence

While it’s sweet to have a Cavapoo glued to your hip, it’s also healthy for them to learn a little independence. Here are a few tips:

• Create a cozy spot: Give your Cavapoo a comfy bed or crate in a room where you spend time, so they learn they can relax without being in your lap.
• Practice short separations: Start with leaving the room for just a few minutes, then gradually extend the time. You should reward calm behavior when you return.
• Use enrichment toys: Puzzle feeders and chew toys can distract your pup when you need some space.
• Positive reinforcement: Reward calm, independent moments with praise or treats.

Remember, Cavapoos thrive on human interaction, so it’s not about pushing them away; it’s about giving them confidence to be okay on their own sometimes.

Final Thoughts

If your Cavapoo follows you everywhere, even to the toilet, it’s a sign of their deep bond with you. They’re not trying to be annoying; they’re just showing love in their own loyal, slightly clingy way.

At Jones Farm Puppies, we raise our Cavapoos to be affectionate, well-socialized companions who adore their families. Whether they’re curled up on the couch or waiting outside the bathroom door, one thing is sure: life with a Cavapoo is never lonely.

FAQ

Why do Cavapoos get so attached to their owners?
Because of their Cavalier and Poodle heritage, Cavapoos are bred to be companion dogs. They naturally form strong attachments to their humans.

Is it unhealthy for my Cavapoo to follow me everywhere?
Not at all! Unless it comes with signs of separation anxiety. Most of the time, it’s just their way of bonding.

How can I help my Cavapoo be more independent?
Start with short periods apart, offer enrichment toys, and create a safe, cozy spot where they can relax without you.

Do Cavapoos grow out of following their owners?
Some may become less clingy with age and training, but most will always enjoy being near their humans.